I’m gonna use the most concise and simple phrases to share the ups and downs of the journey of relationships…
May you find comfort, reminders, and better care for yourself here.

(1)Which woman doesn’t love the sweetness of “heart-fluttering” feelings…?
But how “he” treats me and responds to my feelings is more important than my one-sided infatuation, isn’t it?

(2)There can be many women he admires;
but if he never understands the necessity and value of “setting clear boundaries” and
“being devoted in love”…
then… let whoever loves him take him.

A relationship that can’t give me a sense of security… goodbye, don’t bother coming back.

(3)As a woman, never fall in love with “your own fantasy”…
First learn to “correctly judge the state of the relationship”
then decide “how to invest your feelings and efforts “

so that it won’t turn into a “heartbreaking awakening from a dream”.
This is very straightforward, but very real, isn’t it…?

(4)Allow yourself to try liking someone,
being infatuated with someone,
falling in love with someone,
even loving the wrong person…
These are all precious processes.

If we never have the experience to distinguish between a “casual friend,”
a “flirting” relationship,
and one “worth investing emotionally in,”
how can we ever find someone worthy of our love to spend our lives with ?

(5)I believe one thing:
In this era where “men are also quite calculating,”
there are plenty of men who tirelessly flit between the admirers of many women.

What you unilaterally believe is “a friendly relationship”
doesn’t represent a “real fact”
or a “valuable relationship.”

If you don’t even have the courage and confidence to honestly talk things out
and “confirm the relationship,”
you might as well enjoy being single;
at least your happiness won’t play games with you…

(6)The following is for adults only 18+ 😆

This isn’t about women easily giving themselves away,
but rather a reminder to women to open their eyes and be more aware…

We all know that “men and women are very different”…

If the man you like also says he likes you,
and his behavior seems to suggest he’s interested in you…
and you’ve been having this ambiguous relationship for a while…
But he never shows any desire or makes any move to get closer to you…

Then… please show him the door and let him go.

At best, he just enjoys the feeling of “having a woman interested in him”…
He’s NOT gonna invest his time and efforts in YOU.

Dear sisters,

We don’t have the time to foolishly wait for men who aren’t honest about their feelings;

we can’t teach men who aren’t clear about boundaries to respect themselves and your feelings …

we don’t have the energy to exchange our sincerity for a man
who doesn’t cherish and celebrate your existence.

May we all learn through experience to love ourselves more confidently and decisively first.

Learn and improve your skills in relationships.
Get clarity of what your need and desire first, and stand by them.

May we all love well and be happy ~

I am Angel😇
the relationship coach who’s been here for you through the journey of love ….

(Pictures by Lan Xin)

Chines version:
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