My dear friend far away,

I can’t say I know everything in your situation,
but being 50 years old in life I can share some truth with you , if I may.🙏

Everyone has his / her own reasons of why he/she wants to leave a relationship.

And we have our own reasons of why we want a relationship.

The reasons of why we want a relationship may vary,
but there is one thing in common that I believe in —
We want to be loved right and be happy.
Won’t you agree?

So he can have his reasons of not wanting to be with you,
but girl,
you have your reality—- the reality is
if you’re not happy in the reality now,
then what’s the point of holding on to something or someone that makes you miserable?

You’ve gotta love yourself, care about your own true reality more than anything else.

If you have to beg for someone to stay ,
then he’s never the right one from the start.

Don’t hold on to the potential in your mind, girl.
Live in the reality.
Rather choose to be by yourself and happy
than hanging with someone who makes you miserable.

I know it hurts and sucks.

But better it hurts for a while, ,
and then let go, heal, love and rebuild yourself first.

And after that,
learn to find the right one for you
who will truly love you the way you deserve.

I wish you all the best.

With Love 🙏
Angel

(Pictures by Lan Xin)