Q: I just realized that I am afraid of losing him in this relationship. Seriously?!
A:
Yes, I understand.
However, it should be mutual gain or loss in a relationship.

If he’s never afraid of losing you by his behavior,
why do we even bother worrying about losing him?

Whether it’s the joy of falling for someone, the helplessness of not knowing what to do, or the sadness of realizing certain cold hard truth …
They are all parts of the nutrients in the process of cultivating loving relationships.

By focusing on the inner self and listening to the true desires in your heart, you will be happier and happier with time.

Regardless the outcome of it all,
all that you’ve been through will breed the beautiful results in self growth.

There is no fear in love.
— John 4:18 The Bible

Being afraid is because you care.
You care because there’s a chance you might lose him.

However, a man who truly cares about , cherishes you won’t leave you alone in dealing with the situations.

He will try his best to work things out with you and resolve whatever issues there may be.

You can be a really kind and understanding friend.
But if there’s “love” involved,
I am afraid “love” is such personal and valuable asset,
I simply cannot identify myself with how he’s been dealing with it all.

I am a woman who always gives true love all of me;
a woman who had loved and been loved deeply.

I’ve seen all the scenery there is in a loving relationship.

True love is not about the social status, business, distance or criteria one possesses…
None is the above makes a beautiful relationship.
It’s all about one’s true heart, intentions and willingness.

(Pictures by Lan Xin)

Chinese version:
. 在愛裡, 不應有懼怕